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Then Jesus said to his disciples, "If anyone would come after me, he must first deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for me will find it. ( Matt. 16:24 )
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Looking for God
in Others
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One day, when I was a freshman in high school, I
saw a kid from my class was walking home from school.
His name was Kyle. It looked like he was carrying all
of his books. I thought to myself, "Why would anyone
bring home all his books on a Friday? He must
really be a nerd."
I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football
game with my friends - tomorrow afternoon), so I
shrugged my shoulders and went on. As I was walking, I
saw a bunch of kids running toward him. They ran at
him, knocking all his books out of his arms and
tripping him so he
landed in the dirt.
His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the
grass about ten feet from him. He looked up and I saw
this terrible sadness in his eyes. My heart went out to
him. So, I jogged over to him and as he crawled around
looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye.
As I handed him his glasses, I said, "Those guys are
jerks. They really should get lives." He looked at me
and said, "Hey thanks!" There was a big smile on
his face. It was one of those smiles that showed
real gratitude. I helped him pick up his books, and
asked him where he lived.
As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him
why I had never seen him before. He said he had gone
to private school before now. I would have never
hung out with a private school kid before. We talked
all the way home, and I carried his books. He turned
out to be a pretty cool
kid.
I asked him if he wanted to play football on Saturday
with me and my friends. He said yes. We hung all weekend
and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him,
and my friends thought the same of him.
Monday morning came, and there was Kyle with the
huge stack of books again. I He just laughed and
handed me half the books. Over the next four years,
Kyle and I became best friends. When we were
seniors, we began to think about college. Kyle
decided on Georgetown,
and I was going to Duke.
I knew that we would always be friends, that the
miles would never be a problem. He was going to be
a doctor, and I was going for business on a
football scholarship. Kyle was valedictorian of our
class. I teased him all the time about being a nerd.
He had to prepare a speech for
graduation.
I was so glad it wasn't me having to get up there
and speak. Graduation day, I saw Kyle. He looked
great. He was one of those guys that really
found himself during high school. He filled out and
actually looked good in glasses. He had more dates
than I had and all the girls loved him.
Boy, sometimes I was jealous.
Today was one of those days. I could see that he
was nervous about his speech. So, I smacked him
on the back and said, "Hey, big guy, you'll be
great!" He looked at me with one of those looks
(the really grateful one) and smiled.
"Thanks," he said.
As he started his speech, he cleared his throat,
and began. "Graduation is a time to thank those
who helped you make it rough those tough years.
Your parents, your teachers, your siblings, maybe
a coach...but mostly your friends. I am here to
tell all of you that being a friend to someone is
the best gift you can give them. I am going
to tell you
a story."
I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he t
old the story of the first day we met. He had
planned to kill himself over the weekend. He
talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so
his Mom wouldn't have to do it later
"Thankfully, I was saved.
My friend saved me from doing the
unspeakable. "I heard the gasp go through the
crowd as this handsome, popular boy told us
all about his weakest moment. I saw his mom
and dad looking at me and smiling that
same grateful smile.
Not until that moment did I realize it's depth.
Never underestimate the power of your actions.
With one small gesture you can change a person's
life. For better or for worse. God puts us all in
each other's lives to impact one another in some
way. Look for God in others.
Author Unknown
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